There are steps I take to maximise the chance of successful fucking, Lots of lube, and patience, for example. I don’t really have problems when it comes to receiving oral.
And yes, I can give myself a blow job if I want to, but that’s not something I’m really into. When it comes to penis size, I have an odd perspective. For me, it’s normal to be hung.Įight inches seems average, and anything under eight seems small. I think a lot of guys probably feel that way – that anyone smaller than them constitutes ‘small’. I understand the concept of top privilege, and maybe there are parallels to make between that and size. But in my experience, tops are not common. Is it a problem in the community? It’s hard to answer, because I’m in benefit of it. It’s not even a conversation I’ve had before not with friends, or people I’ve slept with. I am fetishised for my dick, and I don’t really mind, but I don’t encourage it. I get a lot of offers from people wanting to pay to give me oral. It’s not even that I’m morally against it. But it just seems degrading to both parties. People also use Grindr to approach me to do porn. Is it annoying having such a big penis? No, not at all. It can be difficult finding condoms because of my girth, but I don’t often use them anyway, because I’m on PrEP. I don’t have any problems sleeping or cycling. I don’t wear tiny underwear because there’s just no point. But it’s fun to show it off in tight-fitting pants. Also, it’s not like I’m constantly rearranging it. In fact, if I had the option to go bigger, I would. I don’t think I’ve ever dealt with jealousy from other gay men over it.